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At what age should I start trying to potty-train my child?

Potty Training Tips

by Amy R. Beach, FNP

Actually, this depends on both the parent and the child.  Parents need to plan on having extra time and attention to focus on the skill.  Half-hearted attempts produce half-hearted results.  So wait until you’re ready to give it your full attention!  As far as the age of your child, look for some or all of these signs to see if, developmentally, your child is able to successfully give up their diapers!

  • Is your child bothered by a wet or dirty diaper, and do they let you know when it needs to be changed?
  • Does your child show an interest in the potty chair or toilet?  Having one in each bathroom to let them explore and observe can help.
  • Is your child dry for longer than 2 hours at a time or wake up dry from a nap?
  • Can your child follow basic instructions?
  • Can they pull up and down pants and underwear?

Some of these signs are usually beginning between 18-24 months, but it is not uncommon for a child not to show interest in toilet training until 2 ½ – 3 years.

How do I start the task?

If, developmentally, your child seems ready, get rid of the diapers except for nighttime, and begin using underwear.  Plan to put them on the toilet several times a day and especially if they are squirming or giving other signs that they may need to go. You may also want to try after a meal or right after a nap when they should need to go.  Take time to sit with your child and read a book while you are expecting them to sit. Small rewards such as M & M’s or stickers after a success can go a long way in encouraging them.  Plan on accidents, and don’t make a big deal out of them.  Stay home for several days to allow for consistency.  If you try for 1-2 weeks and it’s not working, quit for several months and try again.  Remember, to my knowledge, no child goes to kindergarten in diapers so eventually, it will happen!  Good Luck!